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Lidija P Nagulov's avatar

This is both deeply moving and wonderfully written.

You sound like a fellow ADHD enjoyer, potentially :) Many things you describe from your own experience, like seeing many links between things and wanting to connect everything via threads that don't necessarily make sense to other people sounds extremely familiar.

The Dana Schutz painting story ties in to your Rafah story as well, I feel. This tendency of white people to relate to non-white pain and suffering as fundamentally exotic at some level, and to be interacted with in very different ways than our own pain and suffering. I don't think a single white person right now, regardless of how they are relating to what is happening in Palestine (and Sudan, and the Congo, and Haiti, and, and, and....) can actually imagine watching these same images, except with white children. It is unthinkable. We got the tiniest glimpse of it with Ukraine and the shock and outcry was earthshattering.

The fact is that we white people have been somehow led into believing that to be a good, decent, moral person, what we must do is look 'charitably' upon the suffering of others, while still abstracting it to a great degree. To be moved to pity and sadness upon witnessing it instead of the visceral outrage we would feel if those suffering were of the same skin color as we are. It's an insidious issue because it allows white people to contrast themselves against other white people who do not seem to feel anything for the suffering of others, and position themselves as 'The Good Ones', while still failing to comprehend or empathize with the position of others.

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Omg, I had not heard of the Dana Schutz incident before this and that's actually WILD! Thank you for this piece.

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